Sunday, April 22, 2012
Is it really that hard for a woman to find a man?
Which is more difficult finding a man or finding a woman? In the single female community finding a good man has always been a common problem, but at least it's not as hard as a man trying to find a woman? I believe their are much more opportunities for a woman to find the right mate than it is for a man. Think about it a female can get a date at any given time all she has to do is choose and flirt. A woman doesn't have to give up sex and she can get company with a free meal and a ride home. Now some women just have difficulty finding a "good" man. This is totally different when compared to the pathetic love life of a single guy. A single man has it much harder out there when he is trying to find a woman. A guy has to campaign like a politician just to get a phone number. In some cases he doesn't even care if she is even "good" or "bad". It doesn't make a difference as long as she gives him the time of day. There are countless opportunities for a woman to meet a guy. Guys chase women all the time. It's really about woman choosing and not messing with too many different guys so they are not considered easy. A guy rarely gets approached by woman, even if he is good looking. As a matter of fact a guy can go years without having any relations with a woman unless he initiates conversation. It is a merciless cycle for a guy to just find a woman before even thinking about choosing a good one. Clubs are one of the ultimate social venues for hooking up with someone and women get into clubs for free and are more likely to get free drinks than a guy. Now lets be honest, a guy could be broke but usually has to have the image of having some kind of money to get attention from the ladies. On the flip side a female can be broke as hell and I guarantee she will still get play. No matter how you look at it, it is much more difficult for a single man to acquire just a date than it is for a woman to acquire a good man.
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Since guys always want to be in charge then they just have to work hard. Its true that guys could wait a long time to get a girls attention but too bad. Society expects guys to be the more aggressive/assertive sex just like they expect girls to be conservative. If public view changes then maybe girls will approach guys without being afraid to be seen as loose.
ReplyDeleteIn our society today woman basically control so much. When I sit back and listen to the older generation speak. They all stated that back then a woman would approach a man and relationships would last forever. But these days girls expect so much from guys. If you poppin bottles in the club they think that your a baller. Not knowing that bottle will be sharing around ten other dudes. And on the other hand some men just don't care what girls they talk to. To be it all boils down to sex at the end. Cause today girls are fast and ready to fuck as much and men. Look at our society really carefully it's a fact.
ReplyDeleteHa! it is 10 times harder for a single woman to find a guy. If she is bold enough to approach a guy she is labeled a bit too agressive and/or desperate. If she sits back and waits for the right man to come along, she may end up being the old lonely woman with 20 cats. To find that happy medium is tough, very tough.
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