Things are always cool until that bill comes to the table. You assume you will be paying for you and your date but what about her friends? What do you do? Do you tell the waiter to split the bill in front of everyone? Or do you pay for everyone like a gentleman and forget that you don't get paid until next week? It all depends on the circumstances. If you are having dinner and your date sees her girlfriend and invites her to join you and you say nothing then you already messed up. If you can cover the bill cool but if you are low on funds then you must be prepared to control the situation.
What about multiple drinks, bottles, after party diner and cab fare? Still ballin? How about if you are on a double date and your chick is chatting with her friend and left you out in the cold like a thin sweater? Still feel obligated to pay for her too? (Ladies I can't even hate, if a brother is tricking then keep on drinking). A date is an intimate outing between two people who have a mutual understanding. When other people are involved that means its no longer a date. So if your chick asks you if her friend can accompany both of you she does not value the date as much as you do. That means now you don't have to pay shit! Don't feel like you are being cheap, you are actually separating yourself from a pushover and commanding respect. It is the principle. You slide that bill over to her and let her friend chip in her share.
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