The other day I was watching the tv show Cheaters (View Episode) and this suckah ass dude catches his wifey bashing another dude in the backseat of his car. The next dude who looks like a taller version of the boyfriend got out and they start to beef. Girlfriend is buck ass naked trying to calm her man down. They fighting like two girls. He refuses to listen and boyfriend gets knocked out like Victor Ortiz! WHAT??
Guys please stop trying to fight the next dude if you find out your girl is playing you. It really makes no sense. The average dude is going to bash your woman if she is making herself available to him. What are you going to ask the dude? Why were you fucking my woman? Isn't it obvious why? Trust me the next dude doesn't have you in mind unless your name is Debo. I am tired of hearing boyfriends calling a dude up asking why he is talking to his girl. You sound like a Bytch! Ask your girl why she answers the damn phone? Guys today react ignorantly and think they are protecting there chick. Then their captain save a cheater ass tries to reason with the girl to see what went wrong. This is backwards.
Ideally the person you should confront first is the cheater. The only reason you should have to deal with the next dude is if he knows you or met you before. (Ex: Mr. Big whipping Fancy and R. Kelly's ass in the Down-low video.) Otherwise stop acting like an upset female! It's two things either the female ain't feeling you no more or you were soft with your game. Women get in cat fights because they are emotional. You can't get mad at the next dude. He is only doing what your woman gave him permission to do. Charge her ass to the game!
That's why guys need to make sure their girl is happy and don't just assume that they're doing everything right.
ReplyDeleteThat's right never blame the next dude. It's your girl who chosed to open up her legs. Only way you confront the man is if he forced himself on her and thats another story...how would you really now I guess that's when the trust factor kicks in.
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