Maintaining your Integrity

All the major playa's say the woman should choose the playa.  This is correct but just because the playa gets chosen doesn't mean he has to accept any kind of woman.  Have you ever seen some really odd looking couples. Its important to make sure you select the person to represent you. My perspective reflects on the man because he is the one who has to initiate relations with the woman first.  Right?, Well today a alot of dudes are allowing themselves to get manipulated by females in the game.  This is because they don't have a preference in the woman they want. Alot of females are controlling the dudes  because he is too busy chasing Mrs. Wrong. (Video Chick, Groupie, Hoe etc)  If a dude wants a woman to represent them he should deal with a female that is on or beyond his level.  Dudes need to start setting standards and stop accepting females cause they "might" sleep with you. You must learn to maintain your integrity and not allow yourself to get used.  A female usually picks up on a guys vibe when he doesn't really have any expectation other than scoring her for sex. So now she can use this to her advantage.  "You can't get played if you maintain your integrity"!  When you lower your standards when you date, your doing the other person an injustice.  The other person will never really know that they need to step their game up.  There are plenty of classy woman out there but guys who have low expectations and standards won't find them. That goes the same for the females.  If a woman falls victim to a thirsty dude she is in danger of downgrading herself.